If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men.
The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. Life is suddenly wonderful, and you catch yourself smiling, humming, and happy all the time. I am happy and established successful comp. Their perspective gives you an idea of how important your role as wife and mother is to the success of the family of a doctor's wife. All taken care of by us, the Dr. That settles it for me.
Doctor's often set their priorities as: When I give my husband the "busy as hell" attitude he gets worried about our relationship. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world. I let people assume what they will. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. I got to thinking about how I and others in my ward might react if a same sex couple attended church and how those views might WILL, fingers crossed change over the next decade. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. I wish I could find a support group in South Africa.
Welcome to the future. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. If I'm focused on something like reading a textbook, or working on some problem then I might still think of him vaguely but I'm not going to whip out my phone or go and see himI'm busy. Dating is a tricky game. Our relationship also hasn't really progressed-- we're still only spending the same amount of time together that we were a few months ago. We have been together for almost 6 years, so I'm well aware of what I got into, but it can still be tough. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so.