For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. It will only get worse. If you have children how will they be raised. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. Cool Nicknames for Guys. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him.
I overheard her once saying, "being married to a doctor isn't what you think it is" and this is what I think she was referring to. Don't do it girls, forget the "status" it doesn't mean jack. So do you just never give anything back to SOs in terms of time or small gestures. He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. I ran across your post out of desperation. It interrupts meals, sleep, shopping trips, conversations, romantic time, and even fights. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like. Being a doctor's wife is difficult, demanding, and lonely. Anyway, i know that this is not the experience of every surgical marriage but i guarantee most of them can relate in some way or another.